Today, families are more diverse and complex. Some families have same-sex parents, foster parents, single parents, interracial and so much more. It is easy to feel out of place with the norms and traditions coming from a few decades ago.
The good thing is people are becoming more aware of the situation and are becoming more supportive than ever. You can also show your support by making them feel recognized through these five ways to celebrate a more inclusive holiday.
Avoid Conforming to Gender Stereotypes
In buying gifts don’t assume that fathers do not like “femininized products” such as chocolates, perfumes, stuffed toys, plants, etc. Each parent is unique and their own preference, so explore. Asking might spoil a surprise but it is the most convenient way to find the perfect gift for your parent. Be creative and be subtle in finding out the answer.
Acknowledge How Members of the LGBTQ+ Community Choose to Celebrate
Some LGBTQ+ members who are parents do not take part in celebrating Father’s Day. Before inviting a parent or a couple to celebrate the holiday, always ask first how they will celebrate the holiday. In some instances, LGBTQ+ parents would hold their own celebration of a family or parent day. Support their decision by acknowledging it.
Don’t let a Child be Alone
If you have organized a father’s day event, don’t leave out a child. Some children lost their fathers while some didn’t have a father figure while growing up. Make sure that the child will be accompanied by their guardians, parents, or volunteers.
Use Gender-Neutral Materials
Buy gifts that do not fall on the feminized or masculine products such as items that are color blue and pink. You can also create a card that is not specific to one parent only. This will be helpful as well if you plan to organize an activity that will involve crafts for children. Avoiding gender stereotypes in any activity will help children and adults to be more inclusive.
Organize a Parent’s Day for LGBTQ+ Parents in your Community or Relatives
Some LGBTQ+ parents don’t feel accepted in many ways including the celebration of Father’s Day and Mother’s Day. Show appreciation by setting a date to celebrate all parents. You can have a simple homemade dinner or a small barbecue party. It doesn’t have to be grand, it needs to be genuine and sincere.
